Wednesday 22 April 2015

Begin each deed with Bismillah

Shall I tell you how to create the garden of your future?
Begin each deed with Bismillah, my sister, my brother.
So whenever you adorn your path with seeds in His name,
He will change them into flowers.

No effort shall ever be unnoticed by Ar-Rafi, the Exalter.

Friday 10 April 2015

Even when everything around you feels like its falling apart, open up the Quran and recite the words of Allah. By Allah, His words will comfort you and you will find solace.

Have a blessed Jummah!
Whoever comes to know that his Lord is absolutely free of all needs, will come to know himself to be absolutely in need; whoever comes to know his Lord for absolute will and power, will know himself for his absolute inability to do anything [without Him]; and whoever comes to know his Lord for His total greatness and might, will come to know himself for his total lowness and subjection; and whoever comes to know his Lord to have perfect knowledge, wisdom and decision-making, will come to know himself without any knowledge.

A slave’s knowing his ever-desperate need of Allah is the fruit of this acquired knowledge, the place where [he] finds happiness and success in this world and the Hereafter.

Tuesday 7 April 2015

The 90/10 Principle by Stephen Covey

Discover the 90/10 Principle: It will change your life. The 90/10 principle is incredible! Very few know and apply this principle. The Result? Millions of people are suffering undeserved stress, trials, problems, and heartache. They never seem to be a success in life. Bad days follow bad days. Terrible things seem to be constantly happening. Theirs is constant stress, lack of joy, and broken relationships. Worry consumes time, anger ruins friendships and life seems dreary and is not enjoyed to the fullest. Friends are lost. Life is a bore and often seems cruel. Does this describe you? If so, do not be discouraged. You can be different! Understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It will change your life!

What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane may be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%! How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light, but you can control your reaction. Don’t let people fool you; You can control how you react!



Let’s use an example. You’re eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the coffee cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize them for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed zone.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 (traffic fine) away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs to the building without saying good-bye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to going home. When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the Policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is D. You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened. Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, “It’s OK honey, you just need to be more careful next time.” Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase. You come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You and your spouse kiss before you both go to work. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good of a day you are having. Notice the difference. 

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you Reacted. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% is determined by your reaction.

The 90/10 principle is also applicable to trading.
While we cannot control the price movements, we can always decide on what to do next.
Impatience and rash actions in a volatile market like Forex will inevitably lead to more losses and regrets.
Careful and measured responses to the price actions should result in more joy of winnings and the acceptance of occasional losses.

Monday 6 April 2015

“A diamond is just a piece of charcoal that handled stress exceptionally well.”


So don’t panic when pressure’s on you. Don’t turn away from Allah as He is teaching you something in those times. But bear that time with patience, as your Lord is not unaware of your adversity.

Thursday 2 April 2015

Sabr


وَلَمَنْ صَبَرَ وَغَفَرَ إِنَّ ذَٰلِكَ لَمِنْ عَزْمِ الْأُمُورِ

“But indeed if any show patience and forgive that would truly be an exercise of courageous will and resolution in the conduct of affairs.”
(42:43)



Be patient over what befalls you. If you are going through something hard and painful, know that it will change. No state is eternal in this life. Time and situations changes over and over again. You have to be patient over the bad times and bear them with patience. Remember Allah gives hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. During that time, pray to Allah, get closer to Him for that time may be a source of your getting near Him. Sabr is a stage on the path towards Allah. Humble yourself in the presence of your Lord and He will exalt you.

Wednesday 1 April 2015

“It’s your road and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.”

-Rumi